As the holidays approach, so do family gatherings. If the relatives are coming to town, the question arises: what should we call the occasion, a visit or a visitation?
I can’t tell you how often I’ve seen the word visitation misused for visit. It reminds me of the times I’ve seen simplistic erroneously used for simple.
We all know what a visit is, right? It’s typically when friends or family come to spend time with you.
Is visitation just another way of saying visit, only dressed up in impressive garb intended to make the writer or speaker sound erudite? Or is it something else altogether? Let’s take a peek inside the Oxford Dictionary. (Note: I’m not giving the various meanings in the same order as the dictionary. No. I’m saving the best for last.)
- An official visit of inspection, especially one by a bishop to a church in his diocese.
- A pastoral or charitable visit, especially to the sick or poor
- The appearance of a divine or supernatural being: the blinding light signified a visitation from God
- The visit of the Virgin Mary to Elizabeth related in Luke 1:39–56.
- The festival commemorating the Visitation of the Virgin Mary, on 31 May.
- A divorced person’s right to spend time with children in the custody of a former spouse
- A gathering with the family of a deceased person before the funeral
- An unwelcome or unduly protracted social visit
- A disaster regarded as divine punishment: a visitation of the plague
Here’s an example of an inappropriate use of visitation from the pen of a marketing genius: Increased repeat visitations from current customer base
So … next time you’re tempted to throw in a couple of extra syllables in an effort to impress your readers, please keep in mind the difference between a visitation from the in-laws and a visit from an old friend.